How do we define values ? One way is to look for the common feelings and motivations among us and give them certain names. This is the way we define love, mercy, passion, grief, and so forth… But then things become so relativistic because our feelings are not exactly the same. Also our experiences in life are totally different. Say for example, love, for a grown up man, is a true commitment, as for a young teen, it is a more sexually oriented feeling. And even our prospective for grown-ups and teens is not standardized. So my example is not going to make sense to most of you!
We got used to live with relative definitions. But every now and then we wonder,”what is the standard? What is absolute?” Then we try to generalize our definitions to give it a stronger base. Still it is not enough because life has no meaning with relativism!
It is our beliefs that set the reference for absolute definitions. But if our beliefs are based on materialistic evidence, we will end up with more confusion. They are relative beliefs!! Therefore they are self-contradicting! I think that is why the bible said,”1Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. 2For by it the elders obtained a good report. 3Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear…”(Hebrew 11). If you continue reading this chapter, you will see how different biblical characters had done amazing things and moved on in their ways. I am sure that life had a true meaning for them.
Hello guys, how r u all? I know the post title may be little depressing, it is a curious thought I had long time ago. I wanted to publish it but as I am not very clever in the document work, I was delaying it. I will try to do my best. I wanted to make a schedule of comparison but I failed so I will arrange it acc. to my small skills.
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LOVE!!!
You’re the simplest word that we use alot.
You’re the simplest word that need all complex words to describe.
LOVE!!!
Do you exist or not?
Do we understand you or misunderstand?
LOVE!!!
Who are you?
Where are you?
How do we feel you?
LOVE!!!
Give me prove that you reside in our world
Because I lost the word and the meaning
I lost the action and the track
LOVE!!!
I begin to hate you
as many are misuse you
to kill the few that remain in my heart
LOVE!!!
I can’t even keep away of you
All you’re doing to me is pain and more pain
LOVE!!!
That’s all
So please leave me alone
وبَينَما هُم سائِرونَ، دخَلَ يَسوعُ قَريةً، فرَحَّبَت بِهِ اَمرأةِ اَسمُها مَرتا في بَيتِها. وكانَ لها أُختٌ اَسمُها مَريَمُ، جَلسَت عِندَ قَدمَي الرَّبِّ يَسوعَ تَستَمِعُ إلى كلامِهِ. وكانَت مَرتا مُنَهمِكَةً في كثيرٍ من أمورِ الضِّيافَةِ، جاءَت وقالَت لِـيَسوعَ: “يا رَبُّ، أما تُبالي أن تَتْرُكَني أُختي أخدُمُ وحدي؟ قُل لها أن تُساعِدَني!” فأجابَها الرَّبُّ: “مَرتا، مَرتا، أنتِ تقلَقينَ وتَهتمِّينَ بأُمورٍ كثيرةٍ، معَ أنَّ الحاجَةَ إلى شيءٍ واحدٍ. فمَريَمُ اَختارَتِ النَّصيبَ الأفضَلَ، ولن يَنزعَهُ أحَدٌ مِنها.”
(لوقا 10 : 38 - 42)
The curse of falling in love with someone who is not right
The curse that changes love from romance to a deadly fight
The curse that makes you see all the black as white
The curse that makes you scream in the middle of the night
The curse that can kill & bury then revive
The curse that makes u live without a sensible drive
The curse that makes u say words u don’t mean
The curse that puts pressures on you untill u lean
The curse that makes u feel a disease u cann’t treat
The curse that puts challanges u know u cann’t meet
The curse that controls u no matter how u try to defeat
The curse that makes u patient and teaches u to wait
The curse that u discover only when it is too late
The curse that makes u lose while u think u gain
The curse that makes u happy but fills ur eyes with tears
The curse that makes u safe while surrounding u with fears
What a double weapon……?
Hello guys,eh ento fein ma7adesh ya3ny beyekteb 7aga w 7ata el comments 2alet,eh busy wala kasal wala mafish 7amas,mesh 3awzin keda,7aba 7araka a7san el dema3′ yesady.waiting for ur hot subjects.
I really liked the words of this song,try it
Ricky Martin
» Nobody Wants To Be Lonely
There you are
In a darkened room
And you’re all alone
Looking out the window
Your heart is cold and lost the will to love
Like a broken arrow
Here I stand in the shadows
Come to me, Come to me
Can’t you see that
[Chorus:]
Nobody wants to be lonely
Nobody wants to cry
My body’s longing to hold you
so bad it hurts inside
Time is precious and it’s slipping away
and I’ve been waiting for you all of my life
Nobody wants to be lonely so why
Why don’t you let me love you
Can you hear my voice
Do you hear my song
It’s a serenade
So your heart can find me
And suddenly your flying down the stairs
Into my arms, baby
Before I start going crazy
Run to me, Run to me
Cause I’m dying
[Chorus]
I want to feel you deeply
Just like the air you’re breathing
I need you here in my life
Don’t walk away, don’t walk away
don’t walk away, don’t walk away
No, no, no, no
Nobody wants to be lonely
Nobody wants to cry
Nobody wants to be lonely
I don’t want to be lonely
Nobody wants to cry
I don’t want to cry
My body’s longing to hold you
I’m longing to hold you
so bad it hurts inside
Time is precious and it’s slipping away
and I’ve been waiting for you all of my life
Nobody wants to be lonely so why
Why don’t you let me love you
Why don’t you let me love you
Why, oh why, why, why, why, why
Nobody wants to be lonely
I don’t want to cry
Nobody wants to cry
My body’s longing to hold you
so bad it hurts inside
Nobody wants to be lonely
I don’t want to be lonely
Nobody wants to cry
May be u don like this kind of music but try 2 listen 2 this song i feel like it’s a Evalution” thawra” It’s an old song bas i really like its wards …hope u like it..
Metalica ,albm name S&M
nothing else matters
So close no matter how far
Couldn’t be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters
Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words i don’t just say
And nothing else matters
Trust i seek and i find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters
Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
But i know
So close no matter how far
Couldn’t be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters
Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
But i know
Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words i don’t just say
And nothing else matters
Trust i seek and i find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters
Never cared for what they say
Never cared for games they play
Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
And i know
So close no matter how far
Couldn’t be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
No nothing else matters
Hi all,hope u r all doing fine,well as i took on my shoulders the ressponsibilty of the emotional part of the blog,i tried to find u something nice to share in valentine day,it may be kind of dreamy but io guess it is its time today……wish all of u a very happy valentine,and hope it isn’t late to say it
Moon so bright, night so fine
Keep your heart here with mine
Love is a dream we are dreaming
Race the moon, catch the wind
Ride the night to the end
Seize the day, stand up for the light
I want to spend my lifetime loving you
If that is all in life I ever do
Heroes rise, heroes fall
Rise again, win it all
In your heart, can’t you feel the glory?
Through our joy, through our pain
We can move worlds again
Take my hand, dance the dance with me
I want to spend my lifetime loving you
If that is all in life I ever do
I will want nothing else to see me through
If I can spend my lifetime loving you
Though we know we will never come again
Where there is love, life begins
Over and over again
Save the night, save the day
Save the love, come what may
Love is worth everything we pay
i guess love really worth verything we pay……but of course true one
SINS??? Are these little things that we do according to our needs ….? Or it is in our genes or it is originate at the time ADAM & EVE fall in it, many many things but actually sins are the mask of our instincts …
From my point of view, GOD won’t be sad from us cos’ we make sins itself … no!! GOD gave us our bodies, our lives just to keep it for him,, we are the temples of god here on earth,, and he live in this temple with us,,, and by sins we are destroying this temple and we forget that god is there in this temple too,, at this time we won’t be the only one who will die there,, but also GOD will vanish from our lives!!!!
We are like the atomic structure … GOD is the atom and we are the electrons that move around that atom,,,, and the one which is near to the atom is more active than that one far from it , the far one can be loss very easy ,, and it won’t find the way to come back. ??!!!!
I want to say one last word ,, SIN is the only thing that connect us with that earth , so don’t let it take you down to the core ,, you won’t find anything there except you … the sin laugh at you ……… and of course the fire waiting for you !!! GOOD LUCK IN THE CORE
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, courage to change things i can, . . . . and wisdom to know the difference.
Always remember…… He loves u……
http://www.blesstheday.com/index.cfm?action=view&id=4852&scid=9871
Merna and Rami asked a very serious question,where is elomah?if God is playing with us the hide and seek game so for sure there is an Omah.at least to nol2ot nafasna shewaiah from running after eachother,i liked this question.i thought and i found some ideas about this question,you may add things if you want with pleasure,i think there are little OMAS in our life not a fixed one.it depends on your situation,in brief,elomah 7ALAH NOT A PLACE.i think if there isn’t omah the game will be over and in this case you would exclude God from your life and by this you converted your life in another direction.every 7alah stability with God is an omah BUT in my opinion there is a abig OMAH that is when we DIE.don’t panic but hehe there are some thoughts
Dear all ,
I can’t believe I’m writing for the second time , but really your subjects attract me and let me think in every words , I read that post about dreams and I liked it a lot …. I just want to add something here ,,,
DREAMS … is that these little things that we can’t reach at least for now ?? ok lets imagine that word with each others , try to imagine that you are at the top of the world looking around , you will see a very very beautiful view from over there BUT try to go throw it to be near. ,,,,, at this time you will see the ugliness and pain of that view ,, all I want to say is ,,,,, TRY to let your dreams away for a time even if you can reach it ,, try to feel the beauty for it till you find another dream that you can make it come true ….. dreams are the sugar of life that give the good taste for our lives ,, you have to keep it till It lose its sweetness ……
Some of you will say ,, are you crazy adel . do you want us to see our dreams come toward our eyes and let it go ??? ,, but let me tell you something …. Don’t let your dream control you , you have to control it … it is YOUR dream …………… YOUR dream.
Once I got a dream to live in a farm , in a wood house ,, with a horse and a dog. I know I can’t find it now where I’m living but from deep inside I’m sure I’ll do it one day ,, I’m trying to live in my dream even if that day won’t come to life …. Believe me if I ask myself : will you be happy if that dream come to live in reality ?? I’m not sure (this will be the real word of all of that) i’m not sure……………
Before I go I want to tell you that …. The HAPPINESS is not in the dream itself ,,, but it is in the SUFFERING to reach that dream .
Yours
The dreamer
DEAR ALL,
This time I have a question without a clear answer….Recently, I learnt something from Tony; I learnt that i shouldn’t post ideas unless it is clear to to me…. This time I am not gonna answer.. i will pose the question to learn from you. The question is:
“What is the meaning of satisfaction and self-content? ”
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
A very wise man once told me, ” The only way to measure your self-pride is through your dreams.” I know it may not look resonable to you, but give your mind a chance to digest it. Give it some thought and you will find out how deep this statement is… Really our dreams, including the spiritual ones, reflect our self-pride. I think that is why humble and modest people, of course the real ones not the fake ones, are always happy. They have simple dreams, they are satisfied with what they have… They are even free to let it go, if these dreams don’t come true… Now I started to understand why the church talks a lot about modesty and meekness… I think they are the real way of happiness and freedom….
Dear all,
First I’d like to thank rami not for this site but for allowing me to write in it , I read most of what you wrote but there is one thing attract me and let me write now , the idea of the limitations of GOD ,,, and does god have limits ?? This idea really made me think and I’m still thinking… But this time I’d like to share what is in my mind with you.
When I decided to think in what you wrote and this is one of the little times I do that, the main idea that came into my mind is,, how shall I think in that, and even if I think I will reach nothing, that is cos’ of one main thing,,,,, the limit for god in the unlimited for me as a human beings …. Don’t understand my words as I’m telling you not to think in that… no, but I’m trying to make it easy for you …. I found most of you talking in a very big and complicated words that I couldn’t got it most of the time but for me when I think about god I think in him as a symbol of simplicity and to reach and understand that simplicity you have to be more simple.
Let me be more clear by giving you a simple example, when we see a butterfly, it is for most of us a very beautiful little fly (a limited fly … a limited in its move…etc ) but it carry the unlimited freedom with it.
That is the point , god is like the butterfly ( in his actions I mean ) ,, he moves slowly in my life and hardly I can feel him , but by his movements I got the absolute peace inside .. at last I think I reach to what Miena , Tony , Rami , ……… etc. reach , we are the one who make god tied cos’ we didn’t allow ourselves to accept ( the limited ray from god ) (the unlimited for us ) ,, that ray is his love.
May be I’m talking in another direction, but it was just thoughts I wanted to share with you.
I hope to hear more and more from you ….. May I learn something new?
in the begining i’d love to thanks Rami for this wonderful idea.i still don’t have a pc at my home but i will do my best to share you some of what i am thinking.
Being alone is really something not easy at all.i love being alone and not talking too much but sometimes i feel that there is a bomb inside me and i wanna talk to anyone but God and myself.i think i need to talk to God in the human figure.i will tell you a lovely thing,i remember Miena when he said onetime that when you are alone you are able to see the signs of God more clearly,that is completely right and i live to add something else.WHEN YOU ARE ALONE GOD IS PLAYING WITH YOU THE HIDE AND SEEK GAME.that is right.you feel sometimes that god is not beside you and you began to cry we tel3an elyoum elle enta geet feeh lewa7dak but in uncertain time you find him is saying ANA AHOH and so on.what is making me able to resist and face anything in this life that i am totally convenced that God won’t quit and say ana mosh la3eb khalas.
i wish that you understood my idea clearly
i have alot of ideas but i prefer to tell you about them in every email.
take care of yourselves my friend
RoRooooooooooooooooooooo
Of Praying and some of the controversial issues related to it. (Part II)
I’m going to complete the rest of the points I wanted to mention about the Praying issue. But just before I go on, where are the rest of you guys, why aren’t you commenting, where are you Fadi, you didn’t show up for 2 days, and you used to write to daily before that.
Any way let’s get back to the topic.
Brain whashing, a word that Miena mentioned 2 days, is it related to praying?
Till you what yes it is related, and it should be related. Let’s define first what is brain washing, it is the process of removing certain concepts from someone and yielding new ones. And this kind of change should occur during praying, especially meditation (elhazez). Our old concepts which is based on greedy, lusts, arrogance, hatred…should die and new concepts of love, giving, humpleness…should be born and this change occurs only in praying. So that the new concepts are not just known by us mentally but also based in our hearts moving every action we do.
It seems that I made the whole issue look suspicious, so would you please make it more clear?
I’ll try making it clearer in this paragraph. First when does brain washing occurs, it occurs when I put myself under the clout of certain text or someone. This why we have to do all our prayers based on biblical text, because it the only text which should have clout upon us. I express this situation, that we place ourselves under something and we allow it to reshape us. This why some of the fathers insist on basing meditations on biblical scripts and not even scripts written by saints. This why we should be above all the kind of text and teaching given to us except for the bible. I even consider the same concept with spiritual guiding, we should examine and discern everything before we put ourselves under it. I will go further here and add that we should examine and discern the ideas and thoughts we acquire during praying. Because ideas and thoughts are sometimes illusive. This is why we always here this expression discerning whenever we talk with someone with good spiritual experience.
I’ll try to write something soon about some kinds of brain washing we may suffer from in our lives, because I’ve a lot to say about it.
I just want to add something at the end, inspite of this complications, and sophisticated post I’d written, god is much more simple than this. He is not just simple he never leaves us.

